Thursday, January 31, 2013

MARRAIGE AND PARENTS -REALITY CHECK

What is your idea of getting married for the sake of parents really it very wonderful that in India still people are getting married only and only for the sake of their parents wish


Some of the people also believe that marriage is all about settlement money and inheritances and their parent are the one who make the believe that its not about love but all about safe future and have a stable life



But how much true is it f or girls/boys not much difference

They have same excuse and same story to tell what changes is that only may be If the boy is young and handsome he will get a not so good looking but veeeeeeeeeery rich girl in his parents’ sense which will make him happy of cores her money will do and for visa versa is same its all about utilizing its youth and beauty it may sound weird but deep down it all means the same, safe future and good settled life stable mind you stable
Reality check
What initially happens it totally opposite coz love is something marriage should be based on once they are done with physical activities and are 3 yrs down the lane had honeymoon of all sort n kids back to work what they miss out is the love in their life having comforts and luxuries’ actually give them more time to think about the love angle may be they would have had sometime or someone back their r and thanks to face book now so easy to find

Now when one of the spouse is in dilemma of cores other cannot be happy that s the magic of marriage though you like it or not someone being their for you 24/7 you are addicted now



Den suddenly what if they want to break up and you go back to you parents about it
Parents ????????????????????
Their side of story is they are over with you so don’t expect anything with them really or else may ne they are dead some time so happens and sometime ruthlessly they tell you

It s your life n you are mature enough to take control of ot now when they had messed it up ????????????????????????

They don’t have time for you really ?so If you think you are still baby enough for your parents’ to find life partner fir you grow up please .or else I must say wake up

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