many a times i heard the fact that comparison is the thief of joy so, is it really a fact or just words got around well .
I am still in no mood to act on these lines but yes sometimes when you hang around with person all the time people start to compare him/her with you good or bad may be we never realize how it might feel but the truth is its no win win situation .
like me and my sister always were together all the academics and the fun life so when people used to say how clever she was i was the one who got hurt and when some said how chirpy and friendly i was which she was not she used to be at top of her voice telling me to ward off
from her friends.
it was no win win situation, i always felt low about it who ever was praise i guess i am very pessimistic
so den when i got married away i was relaxed at last i am on my own with no one to compare
it ends up, that i got a spouse who was par excellent from me very active /very good looking /very handsome/and me was contrast -people said ?i don;t believe it ,may be i don;t care .
so many things which i have he does n;t i am popular i have more friends than him i am more smart and yes much more good human being than him i say ,and it does n;t bother him too?????
so whats the catch the catch is ,it only matter if the comparison which is done goes from you ear to your head to heart but actually the things is you are the on who is the thief of of your own happiness, if you allow that comparison to go till your heart and head.
No one is perfect is the answer to some one who compares your life to other s and no one is complete. so if you compromise with what people say about you ,you will end up unhappy.
I am still in no mood to act on these lines but yes sometimes when you hang around with person all the time people start to compare him/her with you good or bad may be we never realize how it might feel but the truth is its no win win situation .
like me and my sister always were together all the academics and the fun life so when people used to say how clever she was i was the one who got hurt and when some said how chirpy and friendly i was which she was not she used to be at top of her voice telling me to ward off
from her friends.
it was no win win situation, i always felt low about it who ever was praise i guess i am very pessimistic
so den when i got married away i was relaxed at last i am on my own with no one to compare
it ends up, that i got a spouse who was par excellent from me very active /very good looking /very handsome/and me was contrast -people said ?i don;t believe it ,may be i don;t care .
so many things which i have he does n;t i am popular i have more friends than him i am more smart and yes much more good human being than him i say ,and it does n;t bother him too?????
so whats the catch the catch is ,it only matter if the comparison which is done goes from you ear to your head to heart but actually the things is you are the on who is the thief of of your own happiness, if you allow that comparison to go till your heart and head.
No one is perfect is the answer to some one who compares your life to other s and no one is complete. so if you compromise with what people say about you ,you will end up unhappy.
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