Bad Parenting Giveaway Signs

There are various signs that indicate that you are being a bad parent. Your actions speak more of you in front of your child rather than much louder than your words. You must take steps to ensure your child is happy and enjoys being in your company. There are times this won’t be easy but still, you must stick to the rule book as parenting requires commitment in all its sense.

Here are a few questions that you can ask yourself. If the answer to any of these questions is YES, then you need to make amends really fast!

1. Are you Avoiding, ignoring or neglecting your child? This leads to the child feeling very low of themselves and may lead to loneliness in them.

2. Physical abuse: Are you slapping or shaking your child?

3. Mental/Verbal abuse: Are you humiliating your child or making him feel under confident? Are you comparing him/her negatively with other kids?

4. Are you complaining to others about your children?

5. Are you complaining to your children about anything in the world or even about them.

6. Are you constantly criticizing your kids?

7. Are you forcing them to work according to your choices?

8. Are you being terribly demanding and stressing them out? .

9. Are you fighting with your spouse/other people in front of your children?

10. Are you always condemning them?

11. Are you always Bickering/shouting/screaming with the servants, friends, spouse, in front of them?

12. Are you mis-understanding /mis-communicating/ mis-interpreting/ mis-representing their thoughts, words and deeds?

13. Are you worrying too much about your children?

14. Are you not keeping faith in your belief that your child can achieve whatever he/she wants to?

15. Are you not motivating your child ?

16. Are you not talking with them or hugging them ?

17. Are you restricting their thoughts/action/feelings to a certain limit ?

18. Are you punishing them often or throwing anger on them ?

Punishment is required when a child does something very ridiculous but it is not the option at most times. Children get worse when they are extensively punished for even small matters or matters not worth it. Punishment is just to teach them a lesson that they must behave consciously and intelligently with a conscientious will before doing anything in life. Once they have learned that lesson, you won’t have even worry about them.