HYDERABAD 2014 -THINGS TO REMEMBER

PROFESSIONAL BEHAVIOR GUIDE

 list of professional behavior would include:

1.       Refraining from using crude, vulgar, and profane language,

2.       Putting things away and tidying up your work area at the end of the day,

3.      Picking up trash you see on the floor, whether or not it’s “your” job,

4.      Lowering your voice when talking on a mobile phone,

5.      Waiting for everyone to be seated before you start to eat

6       Leaving the restroom clean and neat after you’ve used the facility,

7       Listen when others are speaking, and not doing other things, such as glancing at your email,

8       Sending a thank-you note on a timely basis when you receive a gift,

9       Dropping someone a note who is sick or has suffered a setback,

10       Refraining from outbursts of anger, whether in person or via email,

some  more informal guidelines are;-

•       Taking time to fix your hair, press your clothes, and/or polish your shoes before going to work,

•       Arriving a little early so you can start work on time,

•       Arriving on time for appointments and meetings,

•       Checking your work before turning it in and delivering it on time,

•       Avoiding loud voices when trying to make your point or get your way,

•       Refusing to speak to people or refer to people in a derogatory manner,

•       Avoiding the sharing of gossip and the spreading of rumors, and

•       Investing some of your own time and money to develop personal skills and emotional intelligence.

MARRIAGE THE FALSE LOVE LOCKS

recently when watching a series of serial documentary i came up on a very crucial question in real life thought suddenly out of blues it might sound very dramatic and random but yes i thought it was something to be written about so writing what is the purpose of marriage in an  individual life and does it differ from male to female or is it same for every each individual love and care and affection but i might just say that if it was same reason for everyone that there should have been happy endings for everyone no

but usually nit all the alliances or marriages will last or anywhere near to the feel of happily ever after so it makes sense
yes there are different aspects of the same one old tradition called marriage thought i personally will assume it safe and free sex i don;t know how other put it -don;t get me wrong i understand the love logic but that does n;t long enough most of the time some of my friends marry at certain age and time of there career when they feel they can afford to some marry off early for they are working abroad or going to certain uk usa and their parent consider them hungry enough so as to not leave them without being feed with a spouse phewwwwwwwww

somethings like that i don;t know much of the crowd i know who wants to get married to some one or something near love so what the whole halla bulla about it
'its a merry arrangement for some to get a good social life status for some promotion for some house and kids may be

not in every culture thought but really how many people marry for love , i have heard 1 may be out of 100 whats your count
when it comes to gender does men and women have same level of thinking  for marriage or alliances or they also have their own little doubts all the way where may be the male species wants the beauty queen and some eye candy to make his friends envy and females want -car-house -security -sincerity- money - and yes the tagg of married -  you  like it or leave it but you surely cannot miss on it as many times as you like do ut but yes 1 time is very compulsory hehehhehe

COMMUNICATION V/S EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

recently when going through a friends diary i found that she was going for a verbal communication course to my surprise she is very effecent  with her clients and we all the groupso what the fun in going for some thing you are already so good and communication don;t require traing was my though at that time but when she started her point to view i was amazed to hear so sharing it with  my readers too 

she said with examples like - if i say 

I want water” is communication.

“I want a glass of lukewarm water from the blue jug” is effective communication

and that made really a hell of differnece don;t  you think so
this is very important specailly for office cultures she said-

It is rightly said that the success of an organization depends on the transparency between the team members and clear understanding of ideas between them. How does anyone has clear understanding of ideas? The answer is effective communication

bur we cannot ignore the importance of the fact that in our day to day life we have to communicate in a proper manner

Role in Personal life

It is not only the organization but also the personal life where communication plays an important role.
Please go through the following example.
Maddy to Doctor - “I want a painkiller”

The poor doctor would never come to know whether Maddy has a headache or is suffering from shoulder pain or injury in any other part of the body. This is how effective communication is important in personal life. Maddy forgot to make his point clear leading to confusion.on.

it was nice to hear from her- next time we will discuss  about liseners.choow

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HUGGING HEALS -PROVEN

Recently  i came through this very exciting piece of news and i really realized how it helped  of us not even knowing what it means BUT i really thing its very interesting and its very useful in some or other way thought i can be also said for hand shake and its just a human jester or me say in India or any other state or place in world its a common gesture may be man to man or women to women or child Hug his toy bear  .

though  i really feel it works for me when i am stressed and i hug my loved one i feel immediate relief. 

its said in a research that -when a hug lasts 20 seconds, there is a therapeutic effect on the body and mind. The reason is that a sincere hug produces a hormone called "oxytocin", also known as the love hormone. This substance has many benefits in our physical and mental health, helps us, among other things, to relax, to feel safe and calm our fears and anxiety.

This wonderful calming is offered free of charge every time we have a person in our arms, who cradled a child, we cherish a dog or cat, we're dancing with our partner, the closer we get to someone or just hold the shoulders of a friend.. so what are you waiting for just in case u want some free relief from your stresses life just head down to your loved one and spend some time hugging them :)

MANJOLI-BEST PLACE IN CHENNAI -NOT 4 EVERYONE

Manjolai is 57  km away from Tirunelveli and is at an elevation of 1162 sq. meter.  There are many tea plantations in and around this place.  Bombay Burma Tea estate is famous one in this area.  About 4000 people are working in these tea plantations.  Manjolai is noteworthy for the climate, scenery and calm atmosphere.  This place can easily be compared with Udhagamandalam, the queen of Hill stations as far as the pleasing climate and peaceful natural atmosphere are concerned. Just above Manjolai, there are places like Kakkachi and Nalumukka which are real gifts of the nature. 

On the way to Manjolai from Manimuthar there is a very beautiful place called Dasan Pool with plenty of fresh water, greens and fine climate.

Located between elevations ranging from 1000 to 1500 Metres, the Manjolai area is set deep within the the Western Ghats within the Kalakad Mundanthurai Tiger Reserve in the Tirunelveli District. Located on top of the Manimuthar Dam & the Manimuthar Water Falls, the Manjolai area comprises of Tea Plantations, Small settlements around the tea plantations; Upper Kodaiyar Dam and a windy view point called Kuthiravetti

FRIENDSHIP -RULES FOR GENERATION--" F"

The generation we belong to I say is a “F”- generation f in bold because the face book the twitter the online life is all about friends and followers  and  fans and - sometime even f***** so -in a lighter sense yes we are the F-Foolish generations have this ever got your eye that the neighbor- person you are staying or the maid who works at home don’t say you hi- on that frequent note nowadays on the contrary they want to  be in touch with you online rather, they come up to u n say why don’t I reply in fb than with person to person  , in this world where everything has changed so much does the ,,,meaning of relationships, also change now that friends of childhood is on the same category of their friend who only know thru your FB account and have not seen in person or may be its just a #PR -machine and actually doesn’t exists or not interested than you ,you just might be another number for him may be 10-11 ,your are only the 11 th like-FOLLOWER - for him that’s it ‘

In this not so real F- generation what does n don’t u do in a real friendship ,how should you not bother the [person in the opposite side or give him a wrong indications by stalking him day n night not to scary him away in   general I say ,fb friends are not your pets or say psychiatric stop giving them your daily updates including wear about it can be dangerous too .

Your coworker and college 1-2 might be very close but if  you add a whole office staff its actually not going to work in favor of you many times.

Your real friends are always their a call away so trust them but don’t build pressure on them for every time and everything, don’t take them for granted is a golden rule to survive for long with them.

Very importantly there is always a very small thin line between friends and boy-girl/friend until and unless you are said to be the one SAID –TOLD – specifically that you are their dream partner.

Please don’t assume physical gestures as signals

And spoil your friendship.

Necknominate - IS THIS FUN OR IRRESPONSIBLE

NEW ZEALAND-FOR WINTER VACATION

THEIR ARE SO MANY OPTIONS FOR  THE NEW YEAR EVE IF YOU ARE THE KIND OF PERSON WHO IS ALL ABOUT THE GREENER AND PLEASANT WEATHER THIS WINTER

 NEW ZEALAND IS THE PLACE TO BE WITH ITS BEAUTY OF PICTURE SEQUINNED SCENERY ITS NO WAY LESS THAN A HEAVEN ON EARTH AND IF YOU ARE A HIPPIE AT HEART THIS IS THE PLACE YOU WANNA BE

THESE PICTURES ARE FROM ONE OF ITS MOST FAMOUS POINT COROMANDEL peninsula(A piece of land that projects into a body of water and is connected with the mainland by an isthmus.)

This north-eastern peninsula is famous for its white and golden sand beaches that frame magnificent coastal scenery, forests perfect for days of exploration and other natural wonders. Start your visit in Thames, a small but picturesque city with a rich history of gold mining. Don’t miss a stop at Hot Water Beach, where visitors can dig their own hot pool from the springs under the sands.

INDIAN NEWS-BETTER THAN COMICS

how the days of many people start is very much same seeing news paper going around the world in 7-10 Dihams/rupeess
The common start the day thing around the world and none the less even we Indianan do that but  their s a little difference  after watching the news or news paper other nationality may go back to work but we get on the nervous breakdown.

s being in India such a bad joke really for a start the space craft we sent was a huge halla bulla as if we will not send the to mars the whole country will get free food by the any we will save from it ,many made it a poll agenda ,when we NRI  are proud about it that our counrt have done something mention able other than making lame kids mvoe  and earning 1000 crores hey that also important
we send a space craft to mars may be when they might take ppl from earth to mass we would like to send ascertains modis and wodis there

then these poor miss world contestant made so many effort s and went to the peagut on her own will power she was the one who got crown for India what did the Indian mumbai customs do rather than a grand welcom they gave her a grand heart attack asking her tp pay fo rthe diamonds in her winning crown
what ????????? are we lame ?or are we still the same mentality of the snake charmers

so many things to be proud and we make it the joke for the world to laugh they laugh and make their hea;th and we sit and cry so sad we are all Indians same Indians who will never grown up from basic amenities to better things in life we want same shits to worry about everyday we  like it like that
Indiana is all about cricket and Bollywood they cannot hing beyond that mars is the farthest of all
how i wish we could send some joker like this to mars who are holding our country back

INCREASE UR G.K- INDIAN HISTORY FACTS

Lal Bahadur Shastri was the second Prime Minister of India, a true Nehruvian Socialist at heart. His popularity soared during the Indo-Pak war of 1965. It was during his visit to Tashkent to formally end the war that he died supposedly of a heart attack the very next day after signing the Tashkent Agreement in 1966. Various conspiracy theories suggest that he was poisoned. There are disputes about the dark blue spots and cut marks on his abdomen when no postmortem was conducted.

Subhash Chandra Bose or Netaji was the supreme commander of Azad Hind Fauj. He was one of the most prominent Indian leaders at the forefront of the Indian Independence movement. During the closing stages of World War II, it was announced by Japan that Bose had died of third degree burns in a plane crash in Taiwan on August 18th, 1945. However, this is highly disputed as several inconsistencies were found in the Japanese report of Bose’s death. Speculations were that this was actually a ploy to help him go underground and perhaps escape to the USSR.
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The Saraswati River is one of the chief Rigvedic rivers mentioned in the ancient Sanskrit Texts. Infact several of this Vedic texts and Mahabharata mention the presence of a river carrying enormous volumes of water that eventually dried up in a desert. There have been various studies to determine if such a river indeed existed and the most logical conclusion have been drawn is that perhaps what is the Ghaggar-Hakra River was once the Saraswati. But again there are evidences that suggest that the Saraswati has actually dried up before the the Ghaggar-Hakra river period; raising questions about the authenticity of the existence of Saraswati.

Located in the Qutub Complex Delhi, the Iron Pillar is a 1,600-year-old structure. Made from 98% wrought iron, it has been capturing the interests of scientists from the world over for its ability to resist corrosion after thousands of years. Archaeologists and metallurgists have hailed this structure as “a testament to the skill of ancient Indian blacksmiths”. It is interesting how a corrosion resistant pillar was made that sustained for centuries together.

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Legend has it that in a small village near Pune is a levitating stone near the tomb of a certain Qamar Ali. It is said that if the stone is touched by the fingers of 11 people and the name “Qamar Ali Darvesh” chanted, the stone flies up in air. A stone weighing about 200 kg levitating in air is indeed strange. While some believe it to be an illusion, there is no denying that it is a puzzling event and is counted among’st the unsolved mysteries of India.(sources)

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NEXT MASTER CHEF 4M DUBAI -R U THE ONE

 ARE YOU A HARDCORE FAN OF COOKING

AND DID THIS  LINES CAUGHT YOUR ATTENTION THEN YES YOU ARE THE LUCKY ONE MR KAPOOR IS WAITING FOR ..............

MAY BE THIS IS THE GOLDEN CHANCE FOR YOU TO JUST MEET AND GREET HIM OR YOU NEVER KNOW THE FIRST CHEF FROM DUBAI TO GO IN MASTER CHEF 2014

SO MAKE MOST OF THE INFORMATION AND ENJOY THE WORLD WE ARE BORN TO DO WHAT WE ARE ABOUT TO DO COOK AND EAT  YUMMMMMMMMYY.

Cooking Master Class With Sanjeev Kapoor - Thursday 24th October 1.00 to 3.00PM Sanjeev Kapoor has created a master class at Azalya to show participants the delicacies of fine Indian dining. Sanjeev will demonstrate three spectacular recipes and answer any questions about preparing these dishes and his approach to cooking. Following each of the demonstrations, participants will be able to try the dishes.

Price: 299 AED

on an visit to Dubai recently

Gala Dinner With Sanjeev Kapoor – Thursday 24th October 7.00 to 10.00PM Be the first to taste the new menu at Signature by Sanjeev Kapoor in the presence of the Master Chef himself. The Gala Dinner with Sanjeev Kapoor will showcase incredible signature dishes from the new menu, fusing flavor and innovation. Sanjeev Kapoor will be interacting with guests throughout the night to answer any culinary questions. Entertainment will be provided with live music and a DJ set, combined with delicious food, making it a night to remember.

Price: 399 AED 

make your money work or may be cook  for you hehehhe

 (This is not a paid article or ad , just out of respect and love for the Indian celebrity chef  sanjeev kapoor information forwarded)

LIWA -EID AL ADHA BREAK

if you are a regular on my blog yo would habe read my previous article about idd al ada getaways my eid al ada holidays were awesome i got some great places to visit with new adventure to ry hand on and i would like to share it up with you may be you can try them next near holidays

so we went to this  western emirates called sila in border of abu dhabi  and saudi their  its a place very much like al ain and less traffic and less population called liwa- its a small owaisis in the way of 5 hrs journey from proper Dubai(GPS  IS THE BEST WAY TO TRVEL)   and their is no mess or visa or check points its a big time saver compared to muscat-Doha-journeys .

and  its totally worth it their are many resorts their but we were lucky to get one which was located on a hill and the name of resort was also liwa resort we booked for 2 days 3 night with dinner and breakfast with sooooooooo many indoor and outdoor activities included -room were very lavish and had big balcony in it clean rooms spacious with mini bars and waranda kind of outside sitting and lovely views.
their were steam sauna and all kind of spas included in the offer stay to add to it their was their Ayurveda spa also in additional charges inside the resort to take away all of your much needed stress of driving out and relaxation for around 200/- per person

the whole atmosphere is charismatic with a sun set point to swimming pools and small garden with lot of birds playing area for kids and additional activities like squad biking and rented cycling inside the desert  , all desert around you have a feeling like you are lost in some other world out of your day to day hectic office -house -and normal boring routine life.resort we stayed at

its a totally rejuvenating experience
we left after 2 days all refreshed and back to work with kids asking all the time papa why can;t we live here forever ,hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

IDD AL ADHA -EXPATRIATES WAY & SAY

here comes idd al adha in Dubai its 14-15 -16 october 2013 and everyone is looking forward to it Muslims non-Muslim s everyone though Muslims look forward for religious matter non-Muslims like to enjoy the three days ride to neighbor hood emirates their are  beautiful resorts and very  expensive hotel you can log on to if you have money and of you don;t you can also catch some friends and do barbecue after long drives may be in al ain or Fujarah  these both the emirates are beautiful to enjoy ur three days rest

but if you are a Muslim you have 1 day only yes that might sound weird but yes thought Indian expatriates here have no relatives to go on meeting sphere but yes other locals do the 14 will be a fasting day
you don;t expected people to have fun and room around hungry do you so 14 th is gone

den in 15 the morning prayers and breakfast at home will  be a family affair may be by after noon people will flock to global village and shop till morning

if you do so next day ends up in sleeping and for many of my friends their kids exams starts the very next day so may be little preparations their

but if you are really the adventurous type try going for dessert safari or nights at resort for a refreshing your self for coming whole month ,to get pissed up at office .do something for the three days .

get up ,buck up and make arrangement for 3 days lazy folks.

NOVEMBER KA RAJA-SOUTH VERSE NORTH

Too many Bollywood articles i m writing may be planning for a journalis JOB - for bollywood magazine or something hehehe . JOKES APART

now this new one says the month of November is a raja yes -raja november ,with too many raj kumars to i ts credit we will have saif ali khans bullet raja and shahid kapoor rombo rajkumar witha common rani - sonakshi sinha .PHEWWWWWWWW AGAIN

she is in that stage for actresses after which they usually get extinct really same month same heroin with two hero's usually audience get very sick after seeing too much of same heroin remember Karina long time back yes same to same.

now back to raja .Tthe movies are very similar about two street smart guys from north India too much dhisum dhism both the movie reviews looks almost same with too much love for heroin and too much fight with goons too go with and to add to it they even have very dashing villans (sonu sood for rambo rajkumar and vidhuh for bullet raja)and too add may be extra item song here n their.

whats is their that audience will decide is the south version of prabhudeva(i personally like him very much -had great oppurtunity to meet him also face to face)
and the north Indian  version of dhigmashu dhulakia- his last saheb biwi aur ganagster was something commendable .so this clash of titans south verses north will be something to watch for in November

 we wish other than heroin and name -raja-rajkumar-nothing goes similar anyways its too expensive to watch SAME STORY -HEROIN movie in theaters nowadays .

KAPIL SHARMA JI KA THULOO

The kapil sharma aka bittu of comedy circus on colors might not be so innocent with his huge set getting ablaze he looks not so worried and says we will put it together again is it his showman ship or just he has 3 crores in his pocket and then if he had that much in his pocket why not he pays the 60 lakh s for his taxes really  is it so straight are things so straight in life.

as as Soon as he lost his plot of 3 days sat-sun-fri to 24 new series of anil kapoor oN colors ,what has suddenly changed his fate in a span of months, he has lost his set ,his crew goes against him tells he has due pay salary's of their and he is in income tax issues and his judge say sidhu  has sat for a hunger strike (some other news/ISSUE)

i m totally consoling with him on the contrary i say these people who are healing audience to smile and are blessed with such comedy timings such be respected and even should be exempted tax really they are helping the country to distress out of all these nonsense's going around we only here bad news and worst scenarios in serials poor kapil should be exempted from tax for  a relive that all the problems he is going through but then yes ?what the truth who knows

in the end i can only say not being partial to anyone that comedian should be comedian and should not try to be politician and den as sidhu says GIRTAAY HAI SHA SAWAR HI MAYDDAN E GANG MEIN WOH TUFL KYA GIRI JO GHUTNOOU KE BAAL CHALEYY. challenge your limits and fate and shine again.

INTRO IN BIG BOSS - SALMANS PARTIALITY

why salman khan will never get married or why he is he not getting married is an old story now its not interesting at all to read about it again and again so now i wanna tell you actually what happed when i saw the introduction episode of bigg boss 7 sath sath .

to my suprise i noticed that when ever firange girls were coming on show ex- elli or his ex hazel , he was very excited and literally dancing cycling and what not , but when our own Indian girls are on stage say pratusha or punjabi or gooa ki gori -betiya  ratan or say gauharor tanisha for that matter his attitude was yaa yaa i know they are girls

really is it so is this attitude towards your own country woman is acceptable when you are also a 5.4 not so young and some physic s-physio superstar .

my thing is this u are superstar because when in maine pyaar kiya movie was launch what you looked like was actually funny rather than anything how you dance in mandir sequence is more funny
but indian girls made you a hero a superstar later guys joined in and other you are a legend but yes initially if you were not good looking at all- you were cute like any other hero

piegeon looks better than you  here

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now when you have a stand in Bollywood you look down to Indian girls don;t you
how about this you admire blue eyes and white skin heighten girls coz you don;t have any of these
and may be English speaking skill that also you might not have but then hello

give some credit to Indian girls also man .stop your obsession for firanges. STOP DROOLING OVER THEM

GOOD PICNIC SPOTS IN HYD

when at Hyderabad we went to the greener side of it 

Hussein sagar lake and den gandipet they both are beautiful outskirt sights to be visited 

if you don;t have a car or bus try getting  call a cab they arrive on time and full day will cost you according to kilometers may be full day rupees 500 but get outing its best for picnics

HUSSAIN SAGAR LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL FROM THE DAAM SITE

PARKING WITHIN GANDIPET SO MANY SCOOTERS NO WAY TO PARK.

ON THE WAY TO GANDIPET

THEIR IS A GARDEN ALONG WITH GANDIPET.