1.That’s not in my job
description-When you accepted your current position, you had a good idea of
what the responsibilities and workload of the role would entail. Throughout the
months or years since you settled into your job, however, your role has expanded
and changed shape. Some of these changes have probably been good, while others
have made you wish for simpler times. When a boss or manager piles another
responsibility on your already sore shoulders, it might be tempting to pull out
this classic gem of work avoidance The better option, however, is to schedule a
time to talk to your boss about your role. A specific conversation about your
place in the organization is a good time to bring up the particulars of your
job description, not when you’re asked to get something accomplished. No matter
how stressed you are or how valid the complaint, dropping this phrase only
makes you look lazy and unmotivated.
2. “It’s not my
fault.”-No one wants to work with a blame sifter. After all, it’s just a
matter of time before this person eventually shifts the blame onto you. Take
ownership of your mistakes instead of pointing out where others have fallen
short. Admitting to a mistake shows character and the ability to learn and grow
from problems. Pointing the finger at someone else strongly implies you’ll never
truly learn from your errors.. “This will just take a minute- Unless something
will literally take only 60 seconds, don’t over-promise and under-deliver.
Saying something will only take “a minute” also has the side effect of
undermining your efforts. Most likely the reason the particular task won’t take
long is due to the benefit of your professional experience and acumen. By
saying it will “just” take a minute, you're short-changing what you bring to
the table.
3. “I don’t need any help.-The rugged
lone-wolf type might be the hero of most action movies, but they’re unlikely to
become the hero at your company. You might think you can go it alone on a
project or in your career, but team-work is essential. Being able to work with
others is the hallmark of a good leader; you’re unlikely to effectively climb
your career ladder always flying solo.
4. “It’s not fair.-Life isn't fair, and often your career won’t be as well. Instead of complaining, you should look for specific and actionable workarounds to the problems you
encounter. Is it unfair a co-worker got to run a point on the project you
wanted? Maybe, but instead of complaining, work harder and go the extra mile.
Finding a solution will always be preferable in your professional life
to whining about a problem.
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